We Chose to Live Life Today

Today, I feel like the devil attacked us… again…

We could have crawled into bed and cried, but we went swimming instead. We chose to live life today.

we choose to live life today

I can’t lie. I did cry. I cried really hard. I thought about how much I hate my sick body. I thought about my poor family and how much I hate that they have to experience this disgusting disease. Even though I’m not afraid of this fight, I’m not afraid of the pain or even afraid of dying; I still cry in terror for my children who carry my genetics. But then I realize, this is exactly what the devil wants! He wants me to feel sickness, hatred and terror. He wants me to cry but I’m way too stubborn for that! I refuse to let him control our lives. So, no matter what- we chose to live life today.

I avoided my moms phone calls and text messages for as long as I could. I didn’t want to have this conversation with her over the phone. Today, we learned that the tumor in my head has grown significantly and has more than quadrupled in size since the last scan.
brain tumor


It’s time for brain surgery…

I always told myself I would never consider brain surgery as there is a quality of life I feel that I must obtain. I know the side effects of brain surgery and this may sound like a selfish decision, but I’m not willing to live a life of less quality. I think about my family and what they would have to endure in order to take care of me. I think about myself and what kind of life I would live. Mostly, I think about living life as opposed to just being alive. I always said “no” to brain surgery.

According to the surgeons and my neurologist; this tumor is on the surface of my brain. If they can cut it out without cutting into by brain, then that’s a surgery I’m a little bit more willing to do.

So…. I don’t know if any of you have ever had to add a brain surgery into your schedule but it went something like this…

Brain Surgeon: “So, when would you like to schedule your brain surgery?”
Me: “…um, never. But I guess July will be fine.”

Apparently it’s like, totally no big deal… They’re just going to cut along the top of my head, pull my face down and sew it back on after they cut open my forehead to remove the tumor. 😳



… that was sarcasm, it’s totally a big deal…. 🤕

F-Cancer Tee


So while I was avoiding phone calls and texts from my mom and dad, I came across this picture in my phone. It’s funny how God has a way of reminding me who’s in charge…

unimaginable goodness
Exactly one year ago… at about 90 pounds and one of the weakest moments in my life, I stood at the edge of the Earth on top of volcanic lava while giant salty waves crashed into my fragile body. I felt so small in comparison to what God had created in front of me.

I needed to see this picture today. It reminded me that we are beyond blessed, and that no matter what edge of the earth we stand on, God created it. I know for a fact that if God can create all of this unimaginable goodness, he can destroy the tiny cancer cells that are trying to kill me. I remembered that the God I know, the God that created me and this amazing Earth is greater and stronger than any attack from that tiny insignificant dude on the other side.

We chose to live life today.

If you want more updates please enter your email in the box below and hit the subscribe button!

Share and Enjoy

5 thoughts on “We Chose to Live Life Today

  1. I am crying for you in front of colleagues at a training in Alb. Not because I don’t think God is in control bit because of how close to my heart this story is. Your voice is prevalent when I feel sorry for myself and my baby. Your strength guides me when I want to question why. God gave you this horrendous task because he knew you could handle it and help people along the way. We love you sooo much and GOD is so good. My prayers and support are here w you now, tomorrow and always. You are fucking amazing and I will carry you wherever you need to go!

  2. Well if at this point I had to pick somebody I thought could endure this it would most defiantly be you, your a freaking TIGER, and TIGERS beat everything! Watching you handle this helps me have self confidence in my self. I see how strong people can be. I know it’s not always that way but you have shown a lot of people they can overcome. Thank you and God Bless you and your family. As for the Warriner’s we are here praying hard!

  3. (Reading ), I’m lost and weaker than ever… I want to be strong and think like you but I feel tears running down my eyes and my stomach aches . I can’t even imagine myself going through this. I will Pray for you and your family. You are my hero and I Thank you for sharing your story.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *